Sympathy

Sympathy flowers for a Muskogee family, sent to the house

Funeral flowers go to the service. Sympathy flowers go to the people left at home. Call and a local florist will help you choose something quiet and kind.

Muskogee Flowers is a free referral line. Your order is taken, arranged and delivered by an independent local florist.

A white peace lily and white orchids in a woven basket with a sage ribbon on a side table beside a lit candle

Flowers for the family, not just the service

In the days after a loss, the house fills with casseroles and visitors. Then, about a week later, it goes quiet. A lot of people in Muskogee choose that moment to send something, a low arrangement for the kitchen table or a plant the family can keep.

Sympathy flowers tend to be smaller and softer than service pieces. White, cream and pale green are common, but there is no rule. If the person who died loved bright yellow roses, that may mean more to the family than anything traditional.

Not sure what to write on the card? Our guide to sympathy card messages has short examples you can use or change. A few honest words are better than a long note.

Ideas

What tends to work

  • A living plant

    A peace lily or other plant lasts for months and asks very little of a family that is worn out.

  • Something low and simple

    Arrangements that fit on a counter are easier to live with than tall pieces made for a chapel.

  • A short card

    Sign it the way the family knows you. Your full name helps if you are a coworker or old friend.

Questions

Good to know before you call

What is the difference between sympathy and funeral flowers?

Funeral flowers are made for the service. Sympathy flowers are sent to the family, usually at home. Our comparison guide covers it in more detail.

Is it too late to send sympathy flowers?

Rarely. Flowers sent weeks later remind a family that people still remember.

Can you send them anonymously?

Ask the florist. Most people sign the card, but you can talk through what you want written.

Let them know they are not alone

Call and tell a local florist a little about the family. They will help you choose.

Call a local florist(918) 673-2488
Call a local florist (918) 673-2488